When the English Men use the word INEVITABLE to describe the situation of things,it is putting the matter mildly going by the way survival has turned out to be.
The art of begging has been elevated to such standard that there is no more shame in it except a person is unwilling to do as Pastors say which is to "speak or forever hold your peace"
Holding your peace may result in such consequences that may incur the blame of people who probably would have helped out if a person had been courageous enough to speak out when one is in real difficulty.
It is better to speak out putting shame aside,and be made jest of,than end up creating more problems for oneself by not opening up on a difficulty that a person is putting up with and thinking that he or she could bottle up inside him or her.
Stigma does not grow or show on a persons body and should not be a reason to suffer and die in silence more so as those people that refuse to help you out of a tight corner today are usually the first to contribute towards your funeral.What an irony of life this is.
Let us take solace in that verse in the Bible that says that God will not allow us to suffer an encounter that we cannot with stand. I strongly believe that scripture completely.
Even if the suffering persists, we should not give up but see it as a test of faith more so as the scripture says that even if weeping endures for the night,joy cometh in the morning.
We should however always make efforts to turn things around,after all,it is written that faith without works is dead.These are my quiet moments